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Chapter 19: The Vision of Campus Ministry
I grew up in a very small town in Hooker, Oklahoma. My worldview was simple, rural, and defined by the edges of town that met the...
Monty Daffern
Nov 15, 20224 min read
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Chapter 12: The Siren's Call
I have learned that it is very easy for me to be selfish. Many things in my life can become annoying if I am not careful. When a moment...
Monty Daffern
Nov 2, 20222 min read
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Chapter 539: Porcupines in Winter
My dad was a state trooper for the state of Oklahoma. He said once to me that our jobs were very similar in nature. As a law...
Monty Daffern
Feb 8, 20222 min read
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Chapter 1994: Empty Chairs
One of the most bittersweet realities of decades in campus ministry is that you grow older. Alone. It’s not a bad thing, just hard...
Monty Daffern
Feb 8, 20224 min read
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Chapter 97: Faith is the Victory - Denton Wiggains
There are some songs in our Christian heritage that are forever connected with the first person I heard lead them. When it comes to my ...
Monty Daffern
Feb 3, 20223 min read
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Chapter 22: Praying for our Students
Students are in the third quarter of the school year. It is dark, cold, and filled with Covid-driven anxiety, worry, and fear. They have...
Monty Daffern
Jan 25, 20221 min read
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Chapter 15: Leadership with God's Vision
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference. Act 15 is a key moment of the...
Monty Daffern
Jan 16, 20226 min read
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Chapter 1211: My Wonderful Neighbor
I recently went to visit Mrs. Duncan in the Spanish Coves care facility on December 30th. We said hello and spent an hour laughing,...
Monty Daffern
Jan 10, 20223 min read
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Chapter 539: Where You've Been
I’ve taken up a new hobby. Tracking. I’m not very good at it. I hurt my elbow this fall and it took a long time to heal. So I...
Monty Daffern
Jan 10, 20222 min read
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He Leads Me Beside Stillwater
This is a great article written by one of our former UC interns, Chellie Mills, on the impact that the UC ministry had on her spiritual...
Monty Daffern
Jan 3, 20221 min read
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Chapter 2020: The Going Home Talk
At the end of each semester, students return home from 16 weeks of living the college reality. This is year is very different. The...
Monty Daffern
Jan 3, 20223 min read
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Chapter 26: Letters from James
There is an irony in trying to suggest that mankind is both indebted to live within the structure of laws and proclaiming that in the...
Monty Daffern
Jan 3, 20225 min read
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Chapter 5th: Corinthians - It Takes a Conversation Sometimes
1st Corinthians is actually 2nd Corinthians and 2nd Corinthians is probably 4th Corinthians. What!? When did this happen? I remember...
Monty Daffern
Jan 3, 20222 min read
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Chapter 728b: Singing to the Oldies
When does a new church song accord the privilege of making the noble transition to becoming one of the "oldies"? I recently was able to...
Monty Daffern
Jan 3, 20224 min read
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Chapter 103: How did I Get Here?
I never meant for it to happen. In retrospect, I can see how it happened. Very quietly. Slowly. And without attention. But it was...
Monty Daffern
Jan 3, 20224 min read
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Chapter 96: The Power of a Fishbone
I was nervous last night. It was my "return" to intramural sports. Granted, in the greater scheme of life and things, it was probably...
Monty Daffern
Jan 3, 20224 min read
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Chapter 273: Campus Ministry - The Holiday Break
If you are a campus minister you are probably in a weird place right now. You are experiencing the great detoxification of moving from a...
Monty Daffern
Dec 12, 20206 min read
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Chapter 183: Amazing Love
You have amazing love for me. It is amazing because I know what I am capable of. I know what thoughts escape my imagination at the blink...
Monty Daffern
Dec 10, 20202 min read
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